As a 55-year-old mom of three teenagers, life can feel like one big juggling act. Between school schedules, family obligations, and work, it’s easy to fall into a routine that leaves little room for anything outside the mundane. But after watching *The Life List*, I was reminded of something powerful — the importance of reconnecting with the dreams we had as children, even when adulthood demands so much of us.

The movie follows a character who, after years of putting off her zest for life pursues a childhood list of tasks to accomplish. She decides to finally take the plunge after the urging of her mother and live out a childhood dream. It’s a theme that resonates deeply with me. We get so caught up in our roles as caregivers, providers, and planners that we often forget who we were before all of this. The things that once made us feel alive — the passions and dreams we tucked away — can sometimes seem too far-fetched or frivolous to pursue in our busy adult lives. But *The Life List* made me realize how much we deserve to reclaim those moments.

In the film, the protagonist accepts but never thrives with the monotony in her life. Mediocrity starts to feel like a cage, keeping her from experiencing joy and fulfillment. It’s a relatable feeling. As a parent, I’m constantly planning my kids’ activities, making sure everyone’s needs are met, and running around on autopilot. There’s very little room for spontaneity. Yet, the movie beautifully highlights that living outside the box, even just for a moment, can reignite a sense of purpose and adventure that reminds us of the joy of simply being alive.

It’s easy to forget how important these small, personal adventures can be — especially when we’re raising our children. We often put our own desires on the back burner, assuming they’re unimportant compared to the well-being of our families. But the truth is, taking time to live out our dreams in whatever form they may take — whether it’s picking up an old hobby, going on an unplanned trip, or just saying “yes” to an unexpected opportunity — helps us build lasting memories, not just for ourselves but for our families as well. Our children learn from us, and when they see us taking risks, stepping outside our comfort zones, and embracing joy, it teaches them the value of living a full, authentic life.

*The Life List* reminded me that even in the midst of raising teenagers and managing a busy household, there’s room to live authentically and curiously. I don’t have to wait for the perfect moment. The time is now, and we are all worthy of experiencing the dreams we had when we were young, regardless of age or responsibilities.

So, to all of you out there feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders — take a moment to reflect on what once made you feel truly alive. Don’t let the years pass by without chasing after what sparks that same fire in you today. Life is too short, and our families thrive when we take the time to thrive ourselves and with them 

Some ideas:

• Check out a polo match
• Light the fireplace inside or outside
• Get a slushie
• Take the selfie
• Rollerblade or rollerskate
• Zipline
• Go out with your mom
• Go out with someone else’s mom
• Garden
• Volunteer at concessions. lol
• Buy grocery store flowers just because 
• Go to a concert
• Workout with friends
• Workout outside
• See the sunrise
• Dine Al fresco
• Visit a haunted house